I've noticed it's usually the men who are players. They may
think they've fooled girls, but they never have. Those who have to get girls to
feel good about themselves are the ones who are insecure in their identity.
Those who boast “yea! Look bro! I got that girl's number! I got her fooled!”
are in danger. I've played that game before and learned that it leads nowhere
in the end.
Your start off with the smooth sweet talk, original lines,
smiles, charm, actions, and don't get me wrong, it usually sparks attraction
for some time however women are smarter and than you think. Their intuition can
be very sharp. They know what you want without you telling them. Once you think
that your skills can control a girl, you've already fooled yourself because
it's actually you who are controlled by the girl. When she starts questioning
you and dropping hints, she's feeding your ego. Your then drugged with pleasure
and keeping wanting more. Soon as you start saying “aww come on baby, gimme
more...”, consider yourself desperate and a beggar. When she stops giving you
what you want then your left with a destroyed ego.
If you haven't been rejected yet then the girl will
eventually want to get serious. She'll want to know why you like her and what
you really want. She'll want to see your real self, both the good and bad.
She'll want honesty and to see your vulnerabilities. There's no point in hiding
them, so it's better to submit to her demands. If your going to admit what you
want, do it with style.
Girl: “..I know what you want, your not fooling me. Your
interested in me and want to know if there's a chance..”
Guy: “...well you got me nailed haha..i'm head over heels for
you and i admit it, but hopefully after your done testing me, you can give me a
chance. If i get rejected, i'll accept it with humility, but you never know if
i might be worth it in the end charming smile”
Players want to be the ones in control and they seem to have
it all: The looks, a car, independence, money, a great job, nice clothes, etc.
They may even brag about having sex with virgins but i noticed a pattern. These
girls are inexperienced and weak-minded. They will never dare target a strong
woman on their level. They're intimidated by women who call them out on their
flaws and aren't fooled. Real women don't need men because they are secure in
themselves.
I'm young and have alot of flaws, but i'm not afraid of a
strong woman. I want her to test me. I will be real with what i want and if i'm
wrong, i will humbly admit it. In fact, i want her to call me out because it's
a huge chance to improve. They want the fun and games, but they're afraid of
getting serious which is why they will always lose. I admit there are better
men than me out there. They're stronger, smarter, richer, and more talented
than me.
