Why players get nowhere

I've noticed it's usually the men who are players. They may think they've fooled girls, but they never have. Those who have to get girls to feel good about themselves are the ones who are insecure in their identity. Those who boast “yea! Look bro! I got that girl's number! I got her fooled!” are in danger. I've played that game before and learned that it leads nowhere in the end.

Your start off with the smooth sweet talk, original lines, smiles, charm, actions, and don't get me wrong, it usually sparks attraction for some time however women are smarter and than you think. Their intuition can be very sharp. They know what you want without you telling them. Once you think that your skills can control a girl, you've already fooled yourself because it's actually you who are controlled by the girl. When she starts questioning you and dropping hints, she's feeding your ego. Your then drugged with pleasure and keeping wanting more. Soon as you start saying “aww come on baby, gimme more...”, consider yourself desperate and a beggar. When she stops giving you what you want then your left with a destroyed ego.

If you haven't been rejected yet then the girl will eventually want to get serious. She'll want to know why you like her and what you really want. She'll want to see your real self, both the good and bad. She'll want honesty and to see your vulnerabilities. There's no point in hiding them, so it's better to submit to her demands. If your going to admit what you want, do it with style. 

Girl: “..I know what you want, your not fooling me. Your interested in me and want to know if there's a chance..”

Guy: “...well you got me nailed haha..i'm head over heels for you and i admit it, but hopefully after your done testing me, you can give me a chance. If i get rejected, i'll accept it with humility, but you never know if i might be worth it in the end charming smile”

Players want to be the ones in control and they seem to have it all: The looks, a car, independence, money, a great job, nice clothes, etc. They may even brag about having sex with virgins but i noticed a pattern. These girls are inexperienced and weak-minded. They will never dare target a strong woman on their level. They're intimidated by women who call them out on their flaws and aren't fooled. Real women don't need men because they are secure in themselves.

I'm young and have alot of flaws, but i'm not afraid of a strong woman. I want her to test me. I will be real with what i want and if i'm wrong, i will humbly admit it. In fact, i want her to call me out because it's a huge chance to improve. They want the fun and games, but they're afraid of getting serious which is why they will always lose. I admit there are better men than me out there. They're stronger, smarter, richer, and more talented than me.