Why jealousy is dangerous

We may have grown up to believe that jealousy is a sign of love and it might be true to an extent, but jealousy can become hazardous to your health. If you keep making someone jealous, negative feelings and anxiety will creep in along with many other unwanted emotions. You have no idea what kind of person your dealing with. What's worse is that the person may be jealous because he/she is abusive in nature, not the loving partner you idealize. Pure jealousy can turn people into animals and i've seen it happen before. Guys/girls get violent and physically fight their rivals or simply kill them. It can cause people to hate each other and worse, cause people to change once comparisons are made. The person crushing on you may feel that he/she has to be colder, stronger, richer, talented, etc. to get ahead when it has nothing to do with that. 

People can end up in a prison cell or a grave over jealousy if it isn't treated right away so what's the cure? Stop being needy. You cannot force someone to be in a relationship with you, so you should stop trying. There are many things in life that you cannot control and this is one of them. Let him/her exercise their free will and free yourself of paranoia because it has nothing to do with your self worth. In the meantime, be confident and secure in who you are as a person. If he/she says "..this other guy/girl treats me right.." brush it off and say "ok." Show him/her that you don't need them to be happy. If it's true love then the person will choose you in the end. 

Why flirting can bring death

Flirting whether in person or online can be dangerous. You don't know the kind of person your dealing with. You could be flirting with a murderer, a sociopath, a rapist, a child molester, someone with severe mental issues and it could cost you your life. Some think it's ok to harmlessly flirt so long as boundaries are kept, but you have no idea how others would react. I've had guys turn aggressive and violent just for looking at their girl "the wrong way." People can be animals when it comes to relationships. I'm struggling with anger issues and if i had a wife who flirted with another guy whew! I'd lose all control and go on a rampage of violence. I'd be so consumed by anger in such a frenzy that i'd furiously attack my wife along with the guy. I'd put people on life support. I may not do this, but i don't want to find out. Once someone loses it, it's too late to explain yourself. I've made the mistake of flirting around in the past. I thought "I'm going to flirt and then get serious when it comes to a relationship, what's the harm?" It ended in heart break and now i learned my lesson.Your just as responsible for your actions as those around you. They get a cell, but you could get a grave. Ladies and gentlemen is it worth it? Is it worth people getting hurt over it? Losing friends? Your reputation having to suffer? Your spouse leaving you because of it? Is it worth being hospitalized? Is it worth having someone's blood on your hands because you chose to send signals for your own self pleasure? Is it worth losing your legs, eyes, or having to live in a wheelchair for the rest of your life? Will you have enough fun then? How much more damage do you need before you understand that love isn't a game? It's a matter of life and death.

Be smart and be safe. Flirting is safe only when your serious about making a commitment. You can have a fun, exciting, satisfying relationship without the need to mindlessly flirt. Create strong and healthy friendships without the need to analyze what was said and done or whether or not the other person likes you. Focus on creating honest communication and trust.