Flirting whether in person or online can be dangerous. You don't know the kind of person your dealing with. You could be flirting with a murderer, a sociopath, a rapist, a child molester, someone with severe mental issues and it could cost you your life. Some think it's ok to harmlessly flirt so long as boundaries are kept, but you have no idea how others would react. I've had guys turn aggressive and violent just for looking at their girl "the wrong way." People can be animals when it comes to relationships. I'm struggling with anger issues and if i had a wife who flirted with another guy whew! I'd lose all control and go on a rampage of violence. I'd be so consumed by anger in such a frenzy that i'd furiously attack my wife along with the guy. I'd put people on life support. I may not do this, but i don't want to find out. Once someone loses it, it's too late to explain yourself. I've made the mistake of flirting around in the past. I thought "I'm going to flirt and then get serious when it comes to a relationship, what's the harm?" It ended in heart break and now i learned my lesson.Your just as responsible for your actions as those around you. They get a cell, but you could get a grave. Ladies and gentlemen is it worth it? Is it worth people getting hurt over it? Losing friends? Your reputation having to suffer? Your spouse leaving you because of it? Is it worth being hospitalized? Is it worth having someone's blood on your hands because you chose to send signals for your own self pleasure? Is it worth losing your legs, eyes, or having to live in a wheelchair for the rest of your life? Will you have enough fun then? How much more damage do you need before you understand that love isn't a game? It's a matter of life and death.
Be smart and be safe. Flirting is safe only when your serious about making a commitment. You can have a fun, exciting, satisfying relationship without the need to mindlessly flirt. Create strong and healthy friendships without the need to analyze what was said and done or whether or not the other person likes you. Focus on creating honest communication and trust.
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