As a very young man, i had always thought that perfection was everything. It was my dream to one day find someone who would accept me for who i am. In Truth, i selfishly wanted both of our histories to be pure and clean with nothing coming between us. Sometimes when it comes to a girl i like, we get into fights. I wished for a more perfect ideal woman who has everything: beauty, love, compassion, honesty, dignity, and so on. In fact, i actually found some. The moment was right there when some were waiting for me to make a move. I've had no conflicts with them and they had the qualities i was looking for but to my surprise..i turned them down. Now you may ask why did i do it? Because they were too good for me. Yes they had everything i ever wanted at first glance, but when i finally got it i realized it wasn't what i wanted. It's too easy to love someone only when he/she does good but what about the bad? Is our love cheap to the point where we would abandon a person because of past mistakes?
This is why i will never marry someone who is perfect. I'd rather suffer with a flawed person whom people scoff at. I would choose the person who is undeserving because that is how true love grows. When we can love each other unconditionally. I would want to be with someone who has hurt me because i know if we can overcome small conflicts, we can overcome anything. In spite of all of our flaws, i would want a love that can never be broken.
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