Attractiveness to me is more than just appearance. It's a mindset and an attitude. That being said, here's a list of traits i find most attractive in women:
* Physical attractiveness - It's a plus for me but not the driving force. If i am to pursue a deeper relationship with someone, i must find them physically appealing. They don't have to be models. In fact, i'd rather them not be. Models invest too much time in looking perfect and i know it's all in an illusion. Average looks are fine with me.
* Talent - Having a passion or a hobby is very attractive. This can be anything from reading, writing, sports, etc. I love the idea of women devoting themselves to what they love most.
* Intellect - I find intelligent women to be highly attractive. I don't mind flirting, teasing, laughing, talking about popular fashion or shows but i'd prefer sitting at a table and having an intelligent discussion. It can range anything from art, music, politics, religion, science, philosophy, and so on. I want to engage in thought-provoking dialogue and ponder the grandeur scheme of things. If i'm not familiar with a particular topic, i'll admit it and listen with open ears.
* Confidence - It doesn't have to be perfect, but it also shouldn't be completely non-existent either. I don't want to hear self-degrading comments. I love a woman who can stand her ground in the face of opposition and who believes in herself.
* Honesty - A woman who can speak her mind without fear is worth keeping. She will help you realize certain flaws and strengths you may not realize within yourself. A woman doesn't need to be intimidating, simply speak the Truth.
* Humor - She doesn't need to be a successful comedian, but she should love to laugh. Talking to someone who is serious all the time is a turn off. It makes them unapproachable. Someone who playfully teases me, jokes around, and so forth is very easy to love. A great sense of humor goes a long way.
* Sexiness - While this isn't a requirement, being sexually attractive makes sex easier to get into. A woman can be as beautiful as can be but if she isn't sexually appealing, i'm not going to be turned on. A woman who is comfortable being sexy and in her body is attractive. She knows she's a sex object, but an individual with a great body.
* Respect - This is a must have. Respect is a line that should never be violated regardless of the circumstances. Crossing that boundary will make me easily lose attraction fast.
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