I am still a virgin and i am not ashamed not to admit it for good reasons. Many have tried to convince me to lose my virginity and maybe even joked about it, but i believe that it's only because i have maintained my "innocence" and youth very well. They may not understand just how powerful and special sex can be.
Why is it so special to wait until marriage and why is it dangerous to do it before? Because when you have sex, you don't just have it, you open your heart and soul to your partner. You are confessing that this is your life partner and you are sure of your commitment. It seems common now that people have sex while they are dating as part of the norm or even on their first date, but there are several problems with this. One is that you may not have taken enough time to see if the other person is truly committed to you or not, so if they break up with you, that's fine because now you know that they probably were never committed in the first place if their reasons for breaking up weren't good enough and by avoiding sex, you keep your heart, mind, body, and soul pure as well as youthful.
You may plan to have sex and think you love the other person, but you really don't if your not even sure just how committed they are to you or even about certain qualities that they didn't show you yet. If all your mate wanted was sex, he can then have an excuse to leave you and what will that leave you with? a baby? A house to take care of? STDs? Furthermore, you have just ruined your chances of fully giving your pure being, blooming with youth and innocence to your real soul-mate if you finally did find them. Sex will not as new, powerful, exciting, passionate adventurous and as emotional as it could have been before. Things could have been far better if you had kept your virginity and now, you have wasted it on past sex partners which is not attractive at all. It just shows that you weren't ready for a mature relationship and if you truly loved the other person as much as you love yourself, you would not have lost your virginity so easily.
Now, when you sleep with your soul-mate, you must live with the consequences. Know that you are essentially also sleeping with past boyfriends/girlfriends as well and if by any chance you have an STD, your partner may have to wear protection for the rest of their life every time they have sex with you. Once again, things did not have to turn out that way if you had waited for the right time to have sex.
Commitment and loyalty are essential to every relationship. Sex is the way of proclaiming that the person you are bonding to is your soul-mate for life and that you are giving absolutely everything you can give to him or her.
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